The Truth About Enlightenment
I'm on my own journey and here's where I'm at ..
The truth about enlightenment is that it is not one size fits all. Some people find enlightenment in their chosen god or goddesses, others find it in the idea we are gods and others still find it in the aha! Moments of understanding enough of the worlds workings to feel satisfied.
The sad truth however is that enlightenment is not the end of the journey it is the begining. When you reach that enlightened state, you realise thàt you know nothing despite knowing things.
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The Essential Guide to Entrepreneurship by Guy Kawasaki
An Entire MBA in 1 Course: Award Winning Business School Prof ** #1 Best Selling Business Course! ** Everything You Need to Know About Business from Start-up to IPO
Seth Godin's Freelancer Course Become Remarkable, Find Better Clients, and Do Work that matters
Great Books For Savvy Artists.
It doesn't feel right to overload my awesome readers with content after such a heavy post like the last post. Click here if you didn't see it.
So instead of that, we have decided to put out today's post celebrating world book day, then leave posting for a while to give time and space and respect to our loved ones currently grieving.
Hope that's cool with you guys!
Anyway, 's let's get on with it, shall we?
I have decided to put this in 3 sections and there are roughly 12 books in all. Again I remind you pretty much all of these are affiliate links, this means that we may make a little tiny commission if you buy any of the books we suggest, but this will be no extra cost to you. It basically just means we get more jaffa cakes and hot chocolate to keep churning out content to inspire and encourage you guys.
Sound good?
Great!
Our First Section Is Life
Ok, guys, the whole point of these books is to help you be a better you. A better you will likely be able to produce better art. Get it?
Quick note, there's nothing wrong with the you, you are now, but we as humans are always moving towards something, it may as well be something better.
Here's the list.
Off-Balance On Purpose - Dan Thurmon I believe that work/life balance is a myth that can interfere with our art. Dan explains what's better to do instead of trying to balance things.
Shut Up, Stop Whining, and Get a Life: A Kick-Butt Approach to a Better Life This book was life-changing for me. If you are fed up of fluffy little self-help books and need something with a few more nuts to chew on. This is your book. Loved it! Still, live by many of the principles in this book.
Calm - Fearne Cotton If you want something a little more gentle then Fearne Cotton has got you covered. All of her books are fab, but this is my favourite.
Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway - Susan Jeffers This was such a good book that really helped me get over myself so that I could just get on with getting my art up online. It's been one heck of a journey ever since, and I owe that in part to the lessons and simple writing style of the late, great Susan Jeffers.
Our Second Section Is Business
This is my personal favourite section and narrowing this down to just 4 was hard, but here's the best of the best when it comes to business books.Craft a Creative Business: Making & Marketing a Successful Creative Business This is such a good little handbook for all artists wanting to sell their work.
She Means Business: Turn Your Ideas into Reality and Become a Wildly Successful Entrepreneur Pretty self-explanatory. Enjoy the surprise.
Small is the New Big - Seth Godin - Seriously if you haven't read any of Seth Godin's books you should! Bonus because I can't not include it Linchpin that book revolutionised my business!
Secrets of Closing the Sale by Zig Ziglar It's been a hot minute but from what I remember, it's pretty good.
Our Final Section Is Art
How To Draw Comics The Marvel Way
How To Draw Stupid And Other Essentials Of Cartooning By Kyle Baker
Manga Martial Arts: Over 50 Basic Lessons For Drawing The World's Most Popular Fighting Style
The Animator's Survival Kit (Paperback) Richard E. Williams
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My Tips For Business + Resources (That Totally Work For Blogging)
Happy New Year!
Before I get started, please feel free to read only the sections that apply to you, although you are very welcome to read the whole thing.
If you have any questions please do get in touch, I'm more than happy to help you if I can.
Okay then, let's get started by getting the longest section out-of-the-way!1.Preparation Is Everything.
2.Have A Good Key-Chain.
3.Be True To You
4.Move With The Times.
5.Balance it baby!
6.Don't be Beige.
7.If You Want Customers To Care, Your Customer Care Needs To Be Top Notch
You've heard it before but taking care of your customers should be your number one priority, you wouldn't even have a business without them. Again, this comes into the business integrity issue, but more than that it's about making someone's day and ultimately getting them to keep coming back and tell others about your business and how you gave them such good customer service!
If you look after them, how can they not come back?
8. Be Tigger
Those of you who know me in real life will know that I am the girl who has been knocked down more times than I can count,but I am also the girl who has gotten up more times than most. You have to.
Tigger never ever stops bouncing, you shouldn't either.
You can't predict what is going to happen in life but you are responsible for how you react. Get up and keep going, if you have a dream then make it happen, no one else is going to do it for you and you are the right person for the job.
Business, like life is a roller-coaster, and you do have to learn to roll with the punches, but it is worth it in the long run. If being your own boss is the thing you need to do to be fulfilled in life, then get up and make something awesome happen!
Remember any issue you have in business is likely to already have been experienced by someone else and chances are that someone has written a book or uploaded a video on that very topic. Don't be afraid to reach out, it can create great working relationships and is good for your health, well-being and business.
We are designed to grow, if we stay still too long, we usually wind up falling and looking back. Also, don't neglect your spiritual growth and take some time out just to relax and be at peace.
Don't think you know it all, stay teachable and keep learning, keep growing and make your business awesome, because you can.
You just need to believe that and get to work.
Over the next few months we will be unpacking these tips once every two weeks.
Why so spaced out?
Because I want you to have ample time to apply each tip. Rushing this will only lead to a crash and I don't want that for you, so please do take your time to use these tips as starting point to dive in deeper in each subject.
See you next post!
Love Hayley
xXx
How To Do It All (and still be relatively sane)
There is a delicate balance as a blogger, between reading or watching things because it's research for our own blog, and watching and reading things just because we enjoy it.
None of us is perfect so why chase perfection?
It does.
Trust me I am getting to that, but before I give you my tips for managing blogging and life, I first needed to set the scene just so I can give you what I think is the number one most valuable self-loving thing you can do for yourself as a blogger, and indeed a person.
Don't put so much pressure on yourself, take some time every day just for you.
You can't make your blog as awesome as you want to if you don't have the energy to take care of you.
Only then will you be on top of your game to take care of your blog or whatever else you need to do.
1. Remember the three C's
Consistency
Connections
Cut it down!
How does this apply to bloggers?
It is your blog and you want to make it what you want it to be. That is more than fair enough, but if you reach out to other with different skills, and focus on your own strengths you will make some new friends, create a more professional feel on your blog and be less stressed because you have delegated those things you're not so good at to other people.
2. Mix it up!
3. Preparation is everything
Some people schedule their blog posts, others have life management files, others still use calendars, agendas or dairies and then there are those people like me that do all of the above.
Whatever you decide to use to manage your life, make sure you do plan ahead.
Knowing you already handled certain things frees up time to do other things and is an excellent stress killer!
4. See yourself as a whole person and plan accordingly.
Make sure before you take on new tasks that you are mentally, emotionally and physically up to the challenge at hand. If not then don't be afraid to say no.
We've come full circle, it really is super important to take care of you before you worry about all the demands of life.
5. Keep it simple.
The key thing you need to remember when creating a plan to manage your life is how your plan is serving you. A good management plan should be simple, help you be productive and on task to complete your goals and NOT a burden!
There is a big difference between being stretched or challenged and feeling overwhelmed or burdened, but that's a whole other post.
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Transforming Your Wardrobe for Joy: A Journey to a Happier You
Transforming Your Wardrobe for Joy: A Journey to a Happier You
Clothing is more than just fabric that covers our bodies; it’s a powerful tool for self-expression, confidence, and joy. The clothes we wear can significantly impact our mood and how we interact with the world. If you find yourself standing in front of a closet full of clothes yet feeling like you have nothing to wear, it might be time to revamp your wardrobe with joy in mind. Here’s how you can transform your wardrobe to bring more happiness into your life.
1. Declutter with Purpose
The first step to a joyful wardrobe is decluttering. Go through each item in your closet and ask yourself whether it brings you joy. This concept, popularized by Marie Kondo's KonMari method, encourages you to keep only those pieces that spark joy. Letting go of clothes that no longer serve you or make you happy can be liberating. Donate or sell items that don’t fit, are out of style, or simply don’t make you feel good.
2. Identify Your Style and Needs
Take some time to reflect on your personal style and the needs of your lifestyle. Are you drawn to vibrant colors and bold patterns, or do you prefer neutral tones and classic cuts? Your wardrobe should reflect your personality and make you feel authentic. Additionally, consider your daily activities and ensure your clothes are practical and versatile. A balanced wardrobe should cater to your professional, casual, and special occasion needs.
3. Invest in Quality, Not Quantity
Quality over quantity is a mantra for a joyful wardrobe. Instead of buying multiple pieces of fast fashion, invest in high-quality, timeless pieces that will last. Well-made clothes not only look better but also feel better to wear. When you invest in quality, you’re more likely to cherish and take care of your clothes, leading to a more sustainable and joyful wardrobe.
4. Incorporate Color and Texture
Colors can significantly affect our mood. Incorporate colors that make you happy and confident into your wardrobe. Don’t be afraid to experiment with textures and patterns as well. A mix of textures can make your outfits more interesting and joyful. Whether it’s a soft cashmere sweater, a silk scarf, or a pair of leather boots, the tactile experience of wearing different textures can enhance your overall sense of well-being.
5. Create Outfit Formulas
Having a few go-to outfit formulas can make dressing in the morning a joy rather than a chore. An outfit formula is a simple combination of pieces that you know works well together. For example, a tailored blazer, a crisp white shirt, and a pair of well-fitted jeans could be one of your formulas. By having these formulas, you reduce decision fatigue and make getting dressed a pleasant experience.
6. Prioritize Comfort and Fit
Clothes that fit well and are comfortable to wear can drastically improve your mood. Make sure your clothes fit your body well and don’t cause discomfort. It’s worth getting items tailored if necessary. When you’re comfortable in your clothes, it shows in your confidence and overall demeanor.
7.Personalize with Accessories
Accessories can add a touch of joy to any outfit. Whether it’s a statement necklace, a colorful scarf, or a pair of funky socks, accessories allow you to express your personality and creativity. They can also make old outfits feel new again. Choose accessories that make you smile and that you love to wear.
8. Embrace Seasonal Changes
Changing your wardrobe with the seasons can bring a sense of renewal and excitement. Rotate your clothes to reflect the current season, storing off-season items out of sight. This keeps your wardrobe feeling fresh and ensures you’re always dressed appropriately for the weather. Plus, it gives you something to look forward to as the seasons change.
9. Sustainable Choices for Joy
Being mindful of the environmental impact of your wardrobe can also bring joy. Choose sustainable brands, buy second-hand, and support ethical fashion practices. Knowing that your clothing choices are contributing to a better world can enhance your sense of joy and fulfillment.
10. Celebrate Your Wardrobe
Lastly, take time to celebrate your wardrobe. Organize it in a way that is pleasing to the eye, maybe even color-coordinated or by type of clothing. Enjoy the process of putting together outfits and appreciate the pieces you own. When you take pride in your wardrobe, it becomes a source of joy rather than stress.
Changing your wardrobe for joy isn’t about following trends or impressing others; it’s about creating a collection of clothes that make you feel your best. By focusing on quality, comfort, and personal expression, you can transform your wardrobe into a source of daily happiness. Remember, the goal is to feel good in what you wear and to let your clothes be a true reflection of your joyful self.